“All Over The Guy” is a contemporary romantic comedy about the quest to find the “one” when “the one” doesn’t know he’s the “one.” It explores the unlikely pairing of two 20-somethings thrown together by their respective best friends in hopes of igniting their own romance. They do everything they can to NOT fall in love, but finally they overcome the dysfunction of their parents and surrender to their hearts.
All Over the Guy is about Eli (Dan Bucatinsky) and Tom (Richard Ruccolo). The film is told mostly in flashback, with Eli recounting his side to Esther (Doris Roberts), an HIV clinic worker as he waits for test results and Tom to a guy he meets at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting. Tom is the adult child of emotionally distant alcoholic parents. Eli’s parents are both psychologists who raised him to be emotionally open but ended up making him neurotic.
Tom and Eli are set up on a blind date by their best friends, Jackie (Sasha Alexander) and Brett (Adam Goldberg), who think they would be a perfect match. They’re both looking for ‘The One’, but don’t recognize it when they find it. On the date, a boring evening is broken up only by an amusing diatribe by Tom against the movie In & Out. A few days later they run into each other at a flea market and hit it off, winding up back at Eli’s place where Tom spends the night. The next morning Tom says that it was a mistake.
Jackie and Brett decide to try again to set them up, and the two men start to develop a relationship. Tom’s fear of becoming emotionally close coupled with Eli’s own insecurities makes it difficult for them to maintain, but Jackie and Brett get engaged which forces Tom and Eli together. They disguise their unease behind petty arguments over meaningless details of grammar and pronunciation but are finally able to push past the pettiness and make love. Eli tells Tom he loves him and Tom, terrified, lashes out at him the next day and drives him away.
The flashbacks end here on the day of Brett and Jackie’s wedding. Esther tries to teach Eli to be more understanding of Tom’s emotional needs. The AA member tries to sexually assault Tom, and when he tells Jackie she upbraids him for throwing Eli away for daring to fall for him. At the reception, Eli and Tom come to realize that they have to overcome their families’ dysfunction and their own fears.
Dan Bucatinsky as Eli Wyckoff
Richard Ruccolo as Tom
Sasha Alexander as Jackie Samantha Gold
Adam Goldberg as Brett Miles Sanford
Andrea Martin as Dr. Ellen Wyckoff
Joanna Kerns as Lydia
Christina Ricci as Rayna Wyckoff
Lisa Kudrow as Marie
Doris Roberts as Esther
this movie is hilarious in a smart way, lol. I like the way the comedy put in the perfect spot, yet it seemed so natural. Anyway, I really like the scene where Eli and Tom arguing about a Fuzzy wuzzy teddy bear, lol.
oh, one more thing, Richard Ruccolo is sooo hott!!!
Jackie: I’m calling from a pay phone because I can’t get my piece of sh*t cell phone to work unless I stand on my head with my fingers up my ass!